Two Core Problems on the Spiritual Path
1. Tamas (Inertia)
Inability to follow through on what we know is right like not waking up early poor habits and lack of discipline. There is a behavior mismatch.
When dealing with tamas, focus on changing behavior, not overthinking intention. Even imperfect motivation is acceptable. Action with imperfect intention is better than inaction. The priority is to build discipline and consistency
2. Rajas (Agitation)
Even while doing duties, the mind is disturbed with anger, stress, anxiety, and frustration. The problem is emotional disturbance despite action.
When dealing with agitation, the issue is not primarily action, it is internal experience. The root cause of agitation is “I am right” and “They are wrong”. Agitation arises from rigid perspective and ego-certainty. The core practice here is to change perspective, not the situation.
An example is the story about the father on a subway with children who are causing a lot of noise. At first, he appears irresponsible and this creates anger for other passengers. When new information becomes available that he just lost his wife, the anger instantly changes to compassion. One’s emotion did not change by controlling behavior; it changed by shifting perspective
What is needed is a perspective shift. The obstacle is the deep conviction that “My view is correct”. The solution is to introduce the possibility of alternate interpretations. Without humility, there can be no perspective shift and without a perspective shift, there can be no inner peace.
Philosophical Foundation — Levels of Truth
Reality operates at multiple levels:
- Subjective (Pratibhasika) — dreams, emotions
- Transactional (Vyavaharika) — everyday world
- Absolute (Paramarthika) — ultimate truth
What is “true” depends on context and purpose. Currently, we don’t see truth, we see utility. Human perception is shaped by survival, not truth.
We naturally interpret the world based on usefulness, advantage, and protection of “me and mine”. The three instinctive drives are:
- Putreshna → legacy / relationships
- Vitteshna → wealth / security
- Lokeshna → recognition / status
These drives reinforce the survival mindset and an ego-centered perspective
The turning point is to ask yourself “What is my goal? If the goal is survival, anger, defensiveness, and ego are justified. However, if the goal is peace, then agitation is not justified even if the world agrees with you.
So, choose a perspective. In uncertain situations, multiple interpretations are possible. Choose the one that reduces agitation and increases clarity. An example is:
- “This person is cheating me” → anger
- “This may be a misunderstanding” → calm
Choose the perspective that supports peace. Truth is not what is logically provable. Truth is what supports your evolution and peace,
Spiritual Knowledge as Tools
Teachings (karma, Brahman, etc.) are not just concepts, they are tools for perspective shifting.
- If a perspective creates:
- Peace → valid
- Ego/arrogance → misapplied
- Peace → valid
Q & A
Question 1: How do we deal with frustration toward others’ behavior?
A: Adopt the perspective of karma. People are shaped by their past experiences and their behavior is not entirely “their fault” This perspective reduces judgment, increases compassion and removes superiority. However, use this perspective appropriately, not as justification for apathy
Question 2: How do we practice this when agitation is happening?
A: 3-Step Practice:
- Conviction
- Truly believe: “If I’m agitated, I must change”
- Truly believe: “If I’m agitated, I must change”
- Practice
- Repeatedly return to this understanding
- Repeatedly return to this understanding
- Daily Reset
- Pause during the day
- Re-align intention (like prayer before action)
- Pause during the day
Constant remembrance builds mastery
Question 3 : Is choosing peace avoiding responsibility?
A: No — distinction is critical:
- Avoidance = not acting when you should
- Wisdom = acting without agitation
Example:
- Discipline a child → required
- Being angry while doing it → optional
Goal: Perform duty + maintain inner peace
Question 4 — Is repeating mistakes tamasic?
A: If inconsistency persists:
- It is often a tamas issue (behavioral)
- Not a perspective issue
Practical Tip:
- Increase responsibility
- External pressure can build discipline
Reflection Question
- What is your most recurring source of agitation?
- What perspective are you holding?
- What alternative perspective can reduce agitation?
